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Apakah mencintaimu melanggar hukum?
Sehingga kau harus memenjarakanku dalam penantian tanpa batas...
Temui aku dalam pengasingan ini.
Setidaknya agar aku sadar,
bahwa menjadi tawananmu adalah pilihanku sendiri
walaupun sampai meregang nanti.

hidup baru, dunia baru

Voucher nonton 21 yang di dompet yg kudapat dari hadiah belanja suatu produk sudah hampir expired. Sudah sejak beberapa bulan lalu belum juga kusentuh. Bukan karena aku tak sempat datang ke mall yang ada 21-nya, tapi memang tidak ada waktu untuk masuk ke sana dan menghabiskan waktu 2-3 jam duduk dan menikmati film lara lebar di dalam sana. Padahal itu adalah hal yang menyenangkan untukku.
Tukang sayur pun semakin jarang kukunjungi. Menu di rumah pun semakin seadanya dan semakin mengandalkan tukang jualan makanan jadi.
Apalagi sanak saudara, sahabat dan handai taulan nun jauh di sana. Semakin jarang kukunjungi.

Silaturahmiku sekarang lebih banyak ke toko buku, perpustakaan universitas, perpustakaan fakultas, perpustakaan mayor, tukang fotokopi, dan tukang ojek di pojok kampus. Juga ibu-ibu kantin dekat fakultas. Dan jauh lebih akrab dengan puluhan buku yang berserakan di atas tempat tidurku yang harus kumamah baik-baik. Ada sekitar 40 buku yang sudah ku fotokopi dan harus kupahami dalam 1 semester ini. Hal ini pula yang memaksakan aku untuk berniat membeli rak buku baru.

Kehidupanku yang baru kutemui ini benar-benar mengalihkanku dari dunia lamaku.

Novel Bumi Cinta kang Abik masih terbungkus plastik. Dua buku ringan pencuci otak baru kubaca depannya saja. Padahal buku-buku tersebut aku beli sekitar 2 bulan lalu. Biasanya aku langsung melahap buku-buku ringan tersebut.

Keinget lagi dengan setumpuk tugas kuliah.

Yah.. menjalankan multiperan ternyata tidak semudah yang dibayangkan. Tapi aku yakin, aku pasti bisa. Aku hanya sedang beradaptasi saja!

Ah.. inilah yang disebut peralihan dan adaptasi.

Aku akan segera melaluinya. PASTI!

second farewell

Sudah lama jemari ini tidak bergerak mengisi blog yang sudah lama menjadi bagian curahan hati dan pikiranku.
Jemari ini terlalu sibuk dengan urusan lain yang lebih menjadi prioritas.
Ah… tapi bukan berarti aku harus berhenti berbagi!

Minggu ini adalah minggu terakhirku bersama siswa-siswaku di NVRC, sedih sekali rasanya meninggalkan mereka. Masih banyak yang ingin kubagi dengan mereka. Masih tersisa bongkahan besar ilmu dan pengalaman hidup yang belum kubagi dengan mereka. Tapi sayang sekali, minggu ini aku harus berjuang di tempat lain,dimana aku tidak mungkin mengajar mereka lagi.

Di sisi lain, aku sangat bahagia dengan minggu ini, karena di saat inilah Allah menjawab doa dan impianku. Yah impianku untuk melanjutkan studi S2 ku dengan gratis alias mendapat beasiswa. Terima kasih ya Allah atas kesempatan yang Engkau berikan kepadaku. Semoga Engkau pun melanjutkan kemudahan ini.
Terima kasih telah memeluk mimpi-mimpiku.

Kemarin ketika hari terakhir dengan siswaku di NVRC, aku tidak kuasa menahan air mata ini. Beberapa siswaku juga terlihat meneteskan air mata.

Ah… aku jadi teringat sekitar dua tahun lalu. Aku dan siswaku di Aljannah juga saling menangis. Karena perpisahan.
Hanya saja bedanya, dua tahun lalu aku ditangisi siswa berusia 5-7 tahunan, sedangkan sekarang, siswaku usianya cukup banyak, mereka sekitar 17-30 tahunan.


Anak-anakku, aku akan selalu merindukan kalian dan aku tak kan pernah berhenti memikirkan kalian. Sampai kapanpun….

Classification of Disadvantaged People

Still remember about definition of Disadvantaged People (or PMKS in Indonesian Language)??

Disadvantaged people is an individual, family, or group of people who has obstacles problem or disturbances or unable to fulfill their needs of life (physically, mentally, and socially) in sufficiency. The obstacle problems and disturbances maybe in form of poverty, neglected, disability, sexual harassment, isolation, and environment changes (suddenly changed) such as disaster.

Currently, Ministry of Social Affairs of Republic of Indonesia published new classification of Disadvantaged People, from 27 classes to be 22 classes.

So, where are the five ones?

Here they are:
# Children the victim of harassment or tread badly, Woman who become the victim of violations or mistreatment, and Elderly who become the victim of violations or mistreatment were combined to be Victim of violations or mistreatment
# Children with disabilities and Persons with disabilities caused of chronic diseases are combined with Persons with Disabilities

And… these are the new 22 classification of Disadvantaged People:

1. Neglected Infant

Children on the age of 0 – 4 years with certain cases faced difficulty to grow properly and optimally (physically, mentally, and socially). It may cause of their parents in capable for caring responsibilities as they are in poor condition, sick or one of them is dead.

2. Neglected Children

Children on the age of 5-18 years because of a certain case such as living poverty one or both parent are sick or dead, or disharmony family so they unable to achieve their basic needs mentally, physically, and socially.

3. Juvenile Delinquent

Children on the age of 18 years old who missed behave in according of norm or customs within society is that detriment for him/herself, the family and other people.However they could not charged legally as they still under age for subject of law.

4. Streets Children

Children on the age of 5 – 18 years old who spent most of their time to work or leisure on the streets or public spaces.

5. Women with potentially low social economy

Women of the age of 19-59 years, who are live alone or widow insufficiently income to fulfill their daily basic needs.

6. Victim of violations or mistreatment

Someone—in this case include children, women,and elderly– who experienced violation, mistreatment not improperly in the environment or family and threatened physically,and non physically.

7. Neglected elderly

Someone who is 60 years or so with certain factors unable to fulfill the basic needs physically, mentally and socially.

8. People with disabilities

Individuals and who have physically or mentally impairment or disorder is that disturbance or burdens for him/her to take part in activities of life. They consist of: Physically disable (blind and mute), mentally disable (mentally retardation, former psychotic diseases), adn mixed (mentally and physically disabled).In this case include children with disabilities and people with disabilities caused of chronic diseases.

9. Women in Prostitution

Women that recurring sexual intercourse with the same or opposite sex out of marriage to get money, material, or services.

10. Beggar

People who get income through begging in public places in many ways and tried to withdraw people’s pity.

11. Homeless

People who live in a condition that does not fit the norms in the local society,and do not have in come and permanent residence and keep wandering in public places.

12. Former Offender

Someone who has completed or in three months will complete his custody as the punishment sentenced and experience obstacles to adapt himself in social community, get difficulty to get jobs or carry on his life normally.

13. The Victim of Drugs Addictive

Someone who misused narcotic, and other addictive substances including alcohol beyond medical treatment or without doctor’s prescription.

14. Poor Family

Someone or the family leader who does not have in come at all or has no power to fulfill the basic needs or someone who has income but is not sufficient for the family.

15. Family Living Inadequate Housing Condition

Family with housing condition and environment which does not meet recruitment of living places, physically, health and socially.

16. Family with Social-Psychological Problems

Family with poor relationship among the members of the family especially disharmony relationship between husband and wife, so function and duties of a family do not properly.

17. Community Live in Remote Areas

A group of people or community that live locally in small social unity and isolated, still bound tidily to natural resources and the habitat social culturally isolated and left behind compared with Indonesian people generally.

18. The Victim of Natural Disaster

Someone, family or group of people who is physyically or mentally even socially, economically due to natural disaster then it cause problem in their live. Including natural disaster are earthquake, flood, tsunami, typhoon, eruption of vulcano, and others.

19. The Victim of Social Disaster

Someone, family or group of people who is suffered physically of mentally, even social economically due to social conflict which emerge obstracles to go their activities.

20. Neglected Migrant Workers

Migrant workers who faced difficulties and social problems and live neglected in destination places.

21. HIV/AIDS

Someone who is recommended by medical professionals (doctor) or laboratorium officers medicallly claimed infected by HIV virus and experiencing syndrom immune and lively in neglected.

22. Fragile Family

Young couple married (5 years of marriage) has socially and economically problems (income about 10% above the poverty). Being unable to fulfill the basic family need.

Seperti mencintai sebuah buku

Mencintai seseorang itu seperti mencintai sebuah buku,bukan mencintai sampulnya saja.

Hmmmmm.... makes sense!

Ketika mencintai sebuah buku, kita akan ikhlas dalam menerima setiap kejutan pada setiap halaman ceritanya. baik halaman tersebut menyuguhkan cerita manis ataupun cerita pahit.

Berbeda dengan hanya mencintai sampul buku, dimana kita tidak siap dengan setiap kejutan cerita setiap halamannya.

menangislah... :'(

kadang manusia terlalu sombong tuk menangis
lalu untuk apa air mata telah dicipta
bukan hanya bahagia yang ada di dunia
menangislah...
di bahuku kau berikanku kepercayaan
bahwa laramu adalah haru biruku
kerna ku adalah sahabatmu