Sudah lama jemari ini tidak bergerak mengisi blog yang sudah lama menjadi bagian curahan hati dan pikiranku.
Jemari ini terlalu sibuk dengan urusan lain yang lebih menjadi prioritas.
Ah… tapi bukan berarti aku harus berhenti berbagi!
Minggu ini adalah minggu terakhirku bersama siswa-siswaku di NVRC, sedih sekali rasanya meninggalkan mereka. Masih banyak yang ingin kubagi dengan mereka. Masih tersisa bongkahan besar ilmu dan pengalaman hidup yang belum kubagi dengan mereka. Tapi sayang sekali, minggu ini aku harus berjuang di tempat lain,dimana aku tidak mungkin mengajar mereka lagi.
Di sisi lain, aku sangat bahagia dengan minggu ini, karena di saat inilah Allah menjawab doa dan impianku. Yah impianku untuk melanjutkan studi S2 ku dengan gratis alias mendapat beasiswa. Terima kasih ya Allah atas kesempatan yang Engkau berikan kepadaku. Semoga Engkau pun melanjutkan kemudahan ini.
Terima kasih telah memeluk mimpi-mimpiku.
Kemarin ketika hari terakhir dengan siswaku di NVRC, aku tidak kuasa menahan air mata ini. Beberapa siswaku juga terlihat meneteskan air mata.
Ah… aku jadi teringat sekitar dua tahun lalu. Aku dan siswaku di Aljannah juga saling menangis. Karena perpisahan.
Hanya saja bedanya, dua tahun lalu aku ditangisi siswa berusia 5-7 tahunan, sedangkan sekarang, siswaku usianya cukup banyak, mereka sekitar 17-30 tahunan.
Anak-anakku, aku akan selalu merindukan kalian dan aku tak kan pernah berhenti memikirkan kalian. Sampai kapanpun….
Sabtu, 14 Agustus 2010
Selasa, 09 Februari 2010
Classification of Disadvantaged People
Still remember about definition of Disadvantaged People (or PMKS in Indonesian Language)??
Disadvantaged people is an individual, family, or group of people who has obstacles problem or disturbances or unable to fulfill their needs of life (physically, mentally, and socially) in sufficiency. The obstacle problems and disturbances maybe in form of poverty, neglected, disability, sexual harassment, isolation, and environment changes (suddenly changed) such as disaster.
Currently, Ministry of Social Affairs of Republic of Indonesia published new classification of Disadvantaged People, from 27 classes to be 22 classes.
So, where are the five ones?
Here they are:
# Children the victim of harassment or tread badly, Woman who become the victim of violations or mistreatment, and Elderly who become the victim of violations or mistreatment were combined to be Victim of violations or mistreatment
# Children with disabilities and Persons with disabilities caused of chronic diseases are combined with Persons with Disabilities
And… these are the new 22 classification of Disadvantaged People:
1. Neglected Infant
Children on the age of 0 – 4 years with certain cases faced difficulty to grow properly and optimally (physically, mentally, and socially). It may cause of their parents in capable for caring responsibilities as they are in poor condition, sick or one of them is dead.
2. Neglected Children
Children on the age of 5-18 years because of a certain case such as living poverty one or both parent are sick or dead, or disharmony family so they unable to achieve their basic needs mentally, physically, and socially.
3. Juvenile Delinquent
Children on the age of 18 years old who missed behave in according of norm or customs within society is that detriment for him/herself, the family and other people.However they could not charged legally as they still under age for subject of law.
4. Streets Children
Children on the age of 5 – 18 years old who spent most of their time to work or leisure on the streets or public spaces.
5. Women with potentially low social economy
Women of the age of 19-59 years, who are live alone or widow insufficiently income to fulfill their daily basic needs.
6. Victim of violations or mistreatment
Someone—in this case include children, women,and elderly– who experienced violation, mistreatment not improperly in the environment or family and threatened physically,and non physically.
7. Neglected elderly
Someone who is 60 years or so with certain factors unable to fulfill the basic needs physically, mentally and socially.
8. People with disabilities
Individuals and who have physically or mentally impairment or disorder is that disturbance or burdens for him/her to take part in activities of life. They consist of: Physically disable (blind and mute), mentally disable (mentally retardation, former psychotic diseases), adn mixed (mentally and physically disabled).In this case include children with disabilities and people with disabilities caused of chronic diseases.
9. Women in Prostitution
Women that recurring sexual intercourse with the same or opposite sex out of marriage to get money, material, or services.
10. Beggar
People who get income through begging in public places in many ways and tried to withdraw people’s pity.
11. Homeless
People who live in a condition that does not fit the norms in the local society,and do not have in come and permanent residence and keep wandering in public places.
12. Former Offender
Someone who has completed or in three months will complete his custody as the punishment sentenced and experience obstacles to adapt himself in social community, get difficulty to get jobs or carry on his life normally.
13. The Victim of Drugs Addictive
Someone who misused narcotic, and other addictive substances including alcohol beyond medical treatment or without doctor’s prescription.
14. Poor Family
Someone or the family leader who does not have in come at all or has no power to fulfill the basic needs or someone who has income but is not sufficient for the family.
15. Family Living Inadequate Housing Condition
Family with housing condition and environment which does not meet recruitment of living places, physically, health and socially.
16. Family with Social-Psychological Problems
Family with poor relationship among the members of the family especially disharmony relationship between husband and wife, so function and duties of a family do not properly.
17. Community Live in Remote Areas
A group of people or community that live locally in small social unity and isolated, still bound tidily to natural resources and the habitat social culturally isolated and left behind compared with Indonesian people generally.
18. The Victim of Natural Disaster
Someone, family or group of people who is physyically or mentally even socially, economically due to natural disaster then it cause problem in their live. Including natural disaster are earthquake, flood, tsunami, typhoon, eruption of vulcano, and others.
19. The Victim of Social Disaster
Someone, family or group of people who is suffered physically of mentally, even social economically due to social conflict which emerge obstracles to go their activities.
20. Neglected Migrant Workers
Migrant workers who faced difficulties and social problems and live neglected in destination places.
21. HIV/AIDS
Someone who is recommended by medical professionals (doctor) or laboratorium officers medicallly claimed infected by HIV virus and experiencing syndrom immune and lively in neglected.
22. Fragile Family
Young couple married (5 years of marriage) has socially and economically problems (income about 10% above the poverty). Being unable to fulfill the basic family need.
Disadvantaged people is an individual, family, or group of people who has obstacles problem or disturbances or unable to fulfill their needs of life (physically, mentally, and socially) in sufficiency. The obstacle problems and disturbances maybe in form of poverty, neglected, disability, sexual harassment, isolation, and environment changes (suddenly changed) such as disaster.
Currently, Ministry of Social Affairs of Republic of Indonesia published new classification of Disadvantaged People, from 27 classes to be 22 classes.
So, where are the five ones?
Here they are:
# Children the victim of harassment or tread badly, Woman who become the victim of violations or mistreatment, and Elderly who become the victim of violations or mistreatment were combined to be Victim of violations or mistreatment
# Children with disabilities and Persons with disabilities caused of chronic diseases are combined with Persons with Disabilities
And… these are the new 22 classification of Disadvantaged People:
1. Neglected Infant
Children on the age of 0 – 4 years with certain cases faced difficulty to grow properly and optimally (physically, mentally, and socially). It may cause of their parents in capable for caring responsibilities as they are in poor condition, sick or one of them is dead.
2. Neglected Children
Children on the age of 5-18 years because of a certain case such as living poverty one or both parent are sick or dead, or disharmony family so they unable to achieve their basic needs mentally, physically, and socially.
3. Juvenile Delinquent
Children on the age of 18 years old who missed behave in according of norm or customs within society is that detriment for him/herself, the family and other people.However they could not charged legally as they still under age for subject of law.
4. Streets Children
Children on the age of 5 – 18 years old who spent most of their time to work or leisure on the streets or public spaces.
5. Women with potentially low social economy
Women of the age of 19-59 years, who are live alone or widow insufficiently income to fulfill their daily basic needs.
6. Victim of violations or mistreatment
Someone—in this case include children, women,and elderly– who experienced violation, mistreatment not improperly in the environment or family and threatened physically,and non physically.
7. Neglected elderly
Someone who is 60 years or so with certain factors unable to fulfill the basic needs physically, mentally and socially.
8. People with disabilities
Individuals and who have physically or mentally impairment or disorder is that disturbance or burdens for him/her to take part in activities of life. They consist of: Physically disable (blind and mute), mentally disable (mentally retardation, former psychotic diseases), adn mixed (mentally and physically disabled).In this case include children with disabilities and people with disabilities caused of chronic diseases.
9. Women in Prostitution
Women that recurring sexual intercourse with the same or opposite sex out of marriage to get money, material, or services.
10. Beggar
People who get income through begging in public places in many ways and tried to withdraw people’s pity.
11. Homeless
People who live in a condition that does not fit the norms in the local society,and do not have in come and permanent residence and keep wandering in public places.
12. Former Offender
Someone who has completed or in three months will complete his custody as the punishment sentenced and experience obstacles to adapt himself in social community, get difficulty to get jobs or carry on his life normally.
13. The Victim of Drugs Addictive
Someone who misused narcotic, and other addictive substances including alcohol beyond medical treatment or without doctor’s prescription.
14. Poor Family
Someone or the family leader who does not have in come at all or has no power to fulfill the basic needs or someone who has income but is not sufficient for the family.
15. Family Living Inadequate Housing Condition
Family with housing condition and environment which does not meet recruitment of living places, physically, health and socially.
16. Family with Social-Psychological Problems
Family with poor relationship among the members of the family especially disharmony relationship between husband and wife, so function and duties of a family do not properly.
17. Community Live in Remote Areas
A group of people or community that live locally in small social unity and isolated, still bound tidily to natural resources and the habitat social culturally isolated and left behind compared with Indonesian people generally.
18. The Victim of Natural Disaster
Someone, family or group of people who is physyically or mentally even socially, economically due to natural disaster then it cause problem in their live. Including natural disaster are earthquake, flood, tsunami, typhoon, eruption of vulcano, and others.
19. The Victim of Social Disaster
Someone, family or group of people who is suffered physically of mentally, even social economically due to social conflict which emerge obstracles to go their activities.
20. Neglected Migrant Workers
Migrant workers who faced difficulties and social problems and live neglected in destination places.
21. HIV/AIDS
Someone who is recommended by medical professionals (doctor) or laboratorium officers medicallly claimed infected by HIV virus and experiencing syndrom immune and lively in neglected.
22. Fragile Family
Young couple married (5 years of marriage) has socially and economically problems (income about 10% above the poverty). Being unable to fulfill the basic family need.
Jumat, 05 Februari 2010
Seperti mencintai sebuah buku
Mencintai seseorang itu seperti mencintai sebuah buku,bukan mencintai sampulnya saja.
Hmmmmm.... makes sense!
Ketika mencintai sebuah buku, kita akan ikhlas dalam menerima setiap kejutan pada setiap halaman ceritanya. baik halaman tersebut menyuguhkan cerita manis ataupun cerita pahit.
Berbeda dengan hanya mencintai sampul buku, dimana kita tidak siap dengan setiap kejutan cerita setiap halamannya.
Hmmmmm.... makes sense!
Ketika mencintai sebuah buku, kita akan ikhlas dalam menerima setiap kejutan pada setiap halaman ceritanya. baik halaman tersebut menyuguhkan cerita manis ataupun cerita pahit.
Berbeda dengan hanya mencintai sampul buku, dimana kita tidak siap dengan setiap kejutan cerita setiap halamannya.
Selasa, 26 Januari 2010
menangislah... :'(
kadang manusia terlalu sombong tuk menangis
lalu untuk apa air mata telah dicipta
bukan hanya bahagia yang ada di dunia
menangislah...
di bahuku kau berikanku kepercayaan
bahwa laramu adalah haru biruku
kerna ku adalah sahabatmu
lalu untuk apa air mata telah dicipta
bukan hanya bahagia yang ada di dunia
menangislah...
di bahuku kau berikanku kepercayaan
bahwa laramu adalah haru biruku
kerna ku adalah sahabatmu
Senin, 12 Oktober 2009
Senyum ^_^
Meredup
Mulai meluntur
Mulai kabur
Mari beri warna ceria
Sayup
Mulai mendayu
Mulai merayu
Mari beri nada bahagia
Kuncup
Mulai mekar
Mulai menyebar
Mari buat ikebana dengan pita
Kuyup
Mulai basah
Mulai meriah
Mari buat semua bersukacita
Ya...
Senyummu
Kunci semuanya bermula
^_^
___________________________
ya, kunci semuanya adalah senyuman
yang kadang ahrus dipaksakan walau dalam kondisi terpahit sekalipun.
walau kadang harus tersenyum dengan diiringi air mata.
ketika hati ini terasa perih, senyum ini pun haruis tetap ada.
Biarlah Allah yang akan menghapus kesedihan itu... dan jangan biarkan senyum itu hilang.
Mulai meluntur
Mulai kabur
Mari beri warna ceria
Sayup
Mulai mendayu
Mulai merayu
Mari beri nada bahagia
Kuncup
Mulai mekar
Mulai menyebar
Mari buat ikebana dengan pita
Kuyup
Mulai basah
Mulai meriah
Mari buat semua bersukacita
Ya...
Senyummu
Kunci semuanya bermula
^_^
___________________________
ya, kunci semuanya adalah senyuman
yang kadang ahrus dipaksakan walau dalam kondisi terpahit sekalipun.
walau kadang harus tersenyum dengan diiringi air mata.
ketika hati ini terasa perih, senyum ini pun haruis tetap ada.
Biarlah Allah yang akan menghapus kesedihan itu... dan jangan biarkan senyum itu hilang.
Senin, 24 Agustus 2009
Senin, 03 Agustus 2009
Standar formal
Memang sih, formal tuh gak ada standarnya. Tiap daerah dan bahkan tiap negara berbeda-beda standarnya. Contohnya, penduduk di negara tertentu boleh-boleh saja memakai sandal dan kaos ketika mengunjungi kantor klien, bertemu atasan atau bahkan bertemu menteri sekalipun.
Tapi Indonesia punya standar sendiri, misalnya ketika kunjungan resmi ke kantor menteri atau gubernur, tak sopan seandainya kita hanya memakai sendal jepit, jeans ketat atau kaos oblong.
Walau pengalamanku tidak banyak dalam mengurus orang-orang luar negeri yang pernah bekerja sama secara resmi dengan pemerintah Indonesia, dimana aku baru mempunyai pengalaman bekerjasama dengan orang Belanda, Jerman, Finlandia, Swedia, Inggris, Jepang, Afrika Selatan, Zimbabwe, Philifina, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Kamboja, Vietnam, Thailand, Nepal, Sri Lanka, Palestina, dan negara muda, Timor Leste. Yang durasinya hanya dalam kurun waktu 1-24 bulan saja. Tapi belum pernah aku menemukan kasus yang sangat mengesalkan seperti ini. Dimana aku harus berulang-ulang mengatakan dan memohon supaya mereka mengikuti standar di Indonesia. Jangan sampai malu-maluin aku sebagai salah satu panitianya.
Masa mau ketemu gubernur, menteri aja masih pada pake stelan ke pasar. Yang merasa tidak enak, kan panitianya. Padahal sebelum mereka disetujui terlibat dalam kerjasama ini, mereka pun sudah menyepakati standar2 yg diterapkan di Indonesia. Ah dasar, memang gak cuma orang kita yang ingkar janji, orang luar pun sama.
Sampai pada kejadian hari ini, dimana aku akan membawa mereka mengunjungi Pusat Rehabilitasinya Departemen Pertahanan yang berdasarkan pengalaman aku, disana tuh kita disambut secara resmi oleh para petinggi2 Dephan. Eh masih ada juga peserta dari negara tetangga yang pakai stelan ke pasar. Ketika aku minta mereka kembali ke kamar untuk ganti, eh yang ada ngambek. Nurut sih nurut (daripada gak dikasih sertifikat lulus sama panitia kali :-P) tapi sambil ngedumel. Memang sih ini mah karena personal dia aja kali, yang udah2, temen senegaranya gak begitu.
Yah sudahlah, ini hanya pengalamanku pagi ini saja, mudah2an kita semua bisa belajar tentang bagaimana menghargai sebuah komitmen terhadap suatu standar.
Any comment?
Tapi Indonesia punya standar sendiri, misalnya ketika kunjungan resmi ke kantor menteri atau gubernur, tak sopan seandainya kita hanya memakai sendal jepit, jeans ketat atau kaos oblong.
Walau pengalamanku tidak banyak dalam mengurus orang-orang luar negeri yang pernah bekerja sama secara resmi dengan pemerintah Indonesia, dimana aku baru mempunyai pengalaman bekerjasama dengan orang Belanda, Jerman, Finlandia, Swedia, Inggris, Jepang, Afrika Selatan, Zimbabwe, Philifina, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Kamboja, Vietnam, Thailand, Nepal, Sri Lanka, Palestina, dan negara muda, Timor Leste. Yang durasinya hanya dalam kurun waktu 1-24 bulan saja. Tapi belum pernah aku menemukan kasus yang sangat mengesalkan seperti ini. Dimana aku harus berulang-ulang mengatakan dan memohon supaya mereka mengikuti standar di Indonesia. Jangan sampai malu-maluin aku sebagai salah satu panitianya.
Masa mau ketemu gubernur, menteri aja masih pada pake stelan ke pasar. Yang merasa tidak enak, kan panitianya. Padahal sebelum mereka disetujui terlibat dalam kerjasama ini, mereka pun sudah menyepakati standar2 yg diterapkan di Indonesia. Ah dasar, memang gak cuma orang kita yang ingkar janji, orang luar pun sama.
Sampai pada kejadian hari ini, dimana aku akan membawa mereka mengunjungi Pusat Rehabilitasinya Departemen Pertahanan yang berdasarkan pengalaman aku, disana tuh kita disambut secara resmi oleh para petinggi2 Dephan. Eh masih ada juga peserta dari negara tetangga yang pakai stelan ke pasar. Ketika aku minta mereka kembali ke kamar untuk ganti, eh yang ada ngambek. Nurut sih nurut (daripada gak dikasih sertifikat lulus sama panitia kali :-P) tapi sambil ngedumel. Memang sih ini mah karena personal dia aja kali, yang udah2, temen senegaranya gak begitu.
Yah sudahlah, ini hanya pengalamanku pagi ini saja, mudah2an kita semua bisa belajar tentang bagaimana menghargai sebuah komitmen terhadap suatu standar.
Any comment?
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